The sky is sooty and although the day is young, it has a quiet feel with a single bird song interrupting at regular intervals. I’ve been trying to remember what we did on Memorial Day when I was a girl. I remember elderly veterans standing outside grocery stores selling red poppies. Thinking back, these men must have veterans of the World War I, and when I recall the day, it’s linked with crepey skin and shaking hands. No one in my family ever died in the service although one of my uncles served as did my brother and cousin.
Yesterday I drove past a nearby pioneer cemetery and noticed that it was being spruced up for visitors and it was dotted with fresh bouquets. I talked with my cousin yesterday who stills lives in the small town where I grew up and some family members are going to the cemetery to visit my grandmother’s grave.
And now on NPR they’re running a brief story about Les Fleurs de la Memoire, or Flowers of Memory. This is a group of French citizens who have adopted the graves of American soldiers killed during the D Day operation. The cemetery contains the remains of 10,000 soldiers and every time I’ve seen photographs of this place, the crosses and Stars of David that mark each grave seem to stretch forever.
Living far from most of my family, I have no graves to visit, but I’ve been thinking about all the young lives that ended in battle. Thinking about how all these men and women had plans and dreams and a destiny that were erased. And I wonder what constituted the first war, the first battle in the history of humankind. Was it a skirmish over a hunting ground or a kidnapping?
When I think back it seems that Memorial Day was often the first picnic of the summer and that it marked the end of spring and the emergence of summer. Back then school was usually over around Memorial Day so it always represented the freedom of summer days stretching ahead, full of promise.
These days besides remembering the dead from war, this weekend also signifies summer reading. At the NPR website you can find a list of books recommended by independent bookseller and you can also read excerpts from the books. The link is: http://www.npr.orghttp://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=90478802
And the books are: City of Thieves, by David Benioff, Now You See Him, by Eli Gottlieb, The Secret Scripture, by Sebastian Barry, Trauma, by Patrick McGrath, Wrack & Ruin, by Don Lee, America America, by Ethan Canin, What Happened to Anna K., by Irina Reyn, The Prince of Frogtown, by Rick Bragg, My Mistress's Sparrow Is Dead: Great Love Stories, from Chekov to Munro, edited by Jeffrey Eugenide, Mudbound by Hillary Jordan, Today: 101 Ghazals, by Suzanne Gardinier, Let the Northern Lights Erase Your Name, by Vendela Vida, The Story of a Marriage, by Andrew Sean Greer
At salon.com you can also find their Summer Reads article with suggestions for thrillers: Hold Tight by Harlan Coben, The Forgery of Venus by Michael Gruber, Child 44 by Tom Rob Smith, Obedience by Will Lavender, Losing You by Nicci French
